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Boy friend is lalaking kaibigan.

Bakit nga ba hindi naging kayo? Boyfriend mo ba yan? Ang dami-daming nagtatanong sayo pero ang sagot mo lang e, “kaibigan ko lang siya” o hindi naman kaya “hindi kami talo” at higit sa lahat yung, “Mahal ko naman siya e, bilang kaibigan.”

Kapag ba malapit ka isang lalaki, kayo na kagad? Hindi ba puwedeng sobrang close niyo lang talaga muna? Kapag ba may kasama kang lalaki parati, malandi ka na kagad? Di ba pwedeng stalker mo muna siya? O di naman kaya di ka pa nagbabayad ng utang mo? At higit sa lahat, kapag ba friend zone lang talaga kayo, ibig sabihin isa sa inyo bakla o obit? Hindi ba pwedeng sabihin na, “Si ganito pala, kaibigan ko.” 

There’s a finite line between love and lust and the same rule applies to friendship and benefits or more over leeching/parasitic relationship.

Bakit kapag babae ka tapos yung best friend mong lalaki, o kahit sabihin na nating close friend mo lang, pag nagka-girlfriend na siya, dapat matuto kang dumistansya? Kasi may respeto ka hindi sa matalik mong kaibigan o sa nobya niya, kung hindi may respeto ka sa sarili mo.But a different rule applies if some guy has a best girl friend. The boyfriend of the girl must understand that the guy best friend was the first one who were with their girlfriend, not as a boyfriend but as a real friend, a brother, someone to lean on or probably a father figure.

Nahihiwagaan lang ako sa mga ganyang sitwasyon. Hindi ko rin alam. May gusto akong sabihin ngunit hindi pwede kasi baka ma-misinterpret ng girlfriend ng kaibigan ko. Namismiss ko lang yung kaibigan ko, bawal ba yun? Masama ba na sabihin kong, “OY PUTANGINA MO MISS NA MISS NA KITA NGONGO KA!”

Marami na ngang nagtanong kung bakit nga ba hindi naging kami. Kasi takot ba kami na baka kapag naging kami, masisira yung pagkakaibigan namin ng ilang taon? O baka naman kasi hindi talaga namin nakikita yung mga sarili namin sa isang relasyong higit pa sa pagiging magkaibigan?

Ako, sa tingin ko, kasi mas pinahahalagahan ko yung pagkakaibigan kaysa love love na yan. Kasi alam mo, ang kaibigan, parang diyos, magulang at pamilya mo lang yan. Mawala ka man, di ka man lang magparamdam ng matagal kasi busy ka boyfriend/girlfriend mo o malayo ka man, andiyan lang sila, nakasilay, naka-alalay at naka-antabay. Na kung mahulog ka man at sa tingin mong walang sasalo sayo, andyan lang sila sa tabi-tabi, handang makinig sa walang sawa mong reklamo sa ka-relasyon mo pag nag-aya kang uminom sa Dapit o sa Balay.

xxx, Camille

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∞  January 31, 2012 at 09:25pm
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Anonymous asked: sa tingin mo, may pagasa pa kaya magkabalikan ang ex lovers someday kahit almost 7 years ago na since nagkahiwalay sila?

Hello anon.

I have the very least idea about that particular situation. It really depends on everything like, if you still talk in between those years or not. But either you do or not, I honestly have no idea. Maybe you two are still friends? It also depends if you had a bad break up or someone cheated in your past relationship. And let me remind you, after those 7 long years the two of you are not exactly the same person 7 years ago. And magkabalikan? Like, you had a cool off for 7 years? Wow ha:)) I think you two must start from the beginning all over again. Para bang, you’ve just met, “Hi, I’m this. Hello, I’m that.” something alike. And besides if you two want to be together, willing to try again and risk it all over again, you actually can. It really depends on the two of you. Ask him/her. That’s the best answer I could give you. And finally, remember why you broke up with him/her before. Weigh your options, possibility and reasons. So you can tell if that person is worth to try again with.

I hope this helps:) Sorry for the late answer </3

xxx, Camille

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∞  January 09, 2012 at 11:38pm
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Anonymous asked: nag ka boyfriend ka na ba ng hearthrob? kung oo paano mo to hinandle?

Err, bloody hell. WHY THIS?

Okay, I had an ex-boyfriend before. A lot of girls liked him so much that they became mean to me since I was dating him that time. Not only that, I caused a scandal which was never true. The girls who liked my ex-boyfriend spread rumours about me which ain’t true. BUT REMEMBER THAT RUMOURS ARE ALWAYS LIKE 100% based from a real story. So what I was saying, rumours always start with this… that there was a story and once the story had been passed, it will either be partly true, not true or the worst, ALL MADE UP.

WE HANDLED the relationship up to the point of breaking up. The happy part about that relationship was the trust we had with each other. We got jealousy in our relationship but that’s normal. Best thing was he never mind the girls who wrote love letter to him or left baked cookies to his seat during breaks. He also stood up as my angel who guarded me from the bitches who broke the rumours to the whole school. I swear, even the teachers knew it. Hayy… memories.

But the sad part was I broke up with this guy because I was so tired of all the stuffs that happened. But  for real, family was the main issue.

You know what, it doesn’t matter if your boyfriend is a hearthrob, the drummer, boy next door, nerd, geek, old college guy or even your neighbor. As long as you have trust with each other, you can make it through. And never mind the sluts tailing your boyfriend. Because at the end of the day, or even after 6 years, you’re still the one for him. :)

xxx, Camille

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∞  December 13, 2011 at 10:50pm
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